@ tupe666: I am no moderator, but I don't think that your comment is helpful.
On topic: I have carefully considered my opinion on an "includes all" OXP, and my feelings about two distinct types of derivatives. My reasoning
can be found here. The bottom line is that I don't think that an "includes all" OXP is useful, or even feasible, if the "all" part is taken seriously.
I am also tired of this debate, and would very much like to move away from it, and do constructive things.
As far as RS/OSE/OE is concerned, personally I think the logical step forward would be to make it into a branch of its own. The players who want to follow Lestradae's vision of Elite would install and play "Oolite Extended", fully knowing that it is not the same as Oolite. It could even get its own bulletin boards.
Lestradae would be free to release the unique features of RS/OSE/OE (the things he added on top of combining OXPs), as a stand-alone OXP (or possibly a couple of stand-alone OXPs) for inclusion into Oolite's OXP collection. But he wouldn't be obliged to do so. After all the unique features are what distinguishes "Oolite Extended" from Oolite, and from OE's perspective they are the added value over "vanilla" Oolite.
The players who want to play Oolite and use its expandability via the OXP-system, would continue to do that, installing or de-installing different OXPs according to their personal preferences. No need to step onto each other's toes.
For me this would be the most honest, most practical, and most logical solution. I (and the other OXPers/scripters) wouldn't be responsible for anything that happens in the OE universe. And Lestradae would retain full control of his project.
Technically I think OE doesn't even need to be distributed as an OXP. It could come as an executable of its own, with all scripts etc. inside the app, instead of an AddOns folder. Considering its current size, the additional 30 or so MB for Oolite itself don't really matter. This would give Lestradae the additional advantage that he could even change the code itself, and wouldn't be restrained in his vision by the scripting system.
I think this could make everybody happy, and give them what they want.